Things to Know Before You Have Sex For the First Time (Don’t be a woosie )

Sex is one of the most memorable experiences for some guys but for many it is a terrifying experience. The reason is the lack of knowledge. Better knowledge of sex will make your lovemaking better. You need to dispel certain myths and unreasoned, baseless and unfounded notions about certain sex matters. This article will discuss some important things to know and do before having sex first time to make it your life’s most exciting experience.

· The length of a penis

This is the most discussed issue of male sexuality. Some men think that by having a lengthy male organ they can get more pleasure during coition and that their partner would also get sexually worked up or excited. Men also nurture an idea that their spouse prefers the persons who have long and hard erection. But, certain women also are afraid that by pushing the lengthy male organ in their vaginas, their male partners will rip their vaginas apart.

Speaking factually, the length of the erection must not cause any inferiority complex or any fear in the minds of either sex. It is not the length that matters, but what is important is as to how long and how best a man can satisfy his spouse. The short length of the male organ should be no cause for any concern for any male. Most of the time, men who have long penis do ejaculate earlier and thus fail to satisfy their sexuality aroused women. One the contrary, some men even with not lengthy male organ, are not found inferior in sexually satisfying their women. The women are not concerned with the length; they are concerned to how best their men can quench their sexual thirst to achieve orgasm. Length is mere psychological phobia which must be dispelled as soon as possible.The length of a penis

Remember, length of the penis has no relation with virility and sex performance of a man. Never let the size be a hurdle in the enjoyment of sexual act, rather concentrate your attention, on other new aspects of love play.

For first timers, it is entirely common for you to approach your first sexual experience with a measure of apprehension. You will have numerous questions running through your head: will I be any good? will she orgasm? will she bleed? will I maintain an erection. It can be a combination of your anxiety and lack of self-confidence that ensure your first sexual encounter will be a disaster.

The following tips will ensure a successful first-time sexual experience especially for men.

· Ensure that you are both ready

Talk to your partner. Discuss what you are about to do. Address any concerns as well as your hopes. Ensure that you both wish to proceed and have no concerns that have gone unaddressed.

· Comfort And Privacy

Find A secluded location with a comfortable bed. The more submissive of the two should lay down and wait for the other to assume a position on top.

· Oral, Vaginal or Anal Sex

It should be decided what type of sex you intend to perform. Oral sex involves stimulation of the genitals with the mouth; vaginal is penetration of the vagina by the penis; anal is penetration of the anus by the penis.

· The Female Orgasm

Women need different things to make them orgasmeffective-communication, therefore, you should allow them to orgasm first. Find out what she needs. Perhaps it is clitoral stimulation, or maybe she needs you to indulge her fetishes. If she wants an orgasm, she will let you know.

· Foreplay

You will both be nervous with this being intercourse for the first time. Practice plenty of foreplay. This will arouse you both and ensure a fully erect penis and a loose vagina or anus.

· Lasting To The End

A man may have trouble continuing until the woman has had her orgasm. The good idea is to masturbate several hours before having sex for the first time. To prepapre well you can even use so called “sexual trainers” that can help you increase your stamina and not to feel too overhelmed when you slide in :). I would recommend you checking this blow job machine out. Expensive but will make you a lasting champion. If this is too rich for your blood and you can only scrape 20 bucks check out the latest fleshlight quickshot model. I do not advice you going after cheaper products of this kind as many of them are made out of toxic materials so I am not sure you want your penis falling off, haha.

These tools will certainly help you train yourself to last long enough to see the woman orgasm before having your own explosion. Also, try to spend much time on initial sex-foreplay; work yourself up to a highly aroused state. Foreplay is also important because, the longer you spend at it, the more your confidence will build and the less chance you will have of losing your erection.

 

The following are some of the worries which usually run in the minds of first timers guys. They will help you manage and overcome you fears.

· Will She Bleed?

It is common for the female virgin to experience pain and small quantities of bleeding when having sex for the first time. If you have booked a hotel room you do not wish to stain the bed sheets, just place a towel on the bed before getting started. To minimize pain and blood-flow, ensure that you both enjoy plenty of foreplay and use copious amounts of lubricant. Try to forget your anxieties of pain and bleeding. Remember that such side-effects of virgin sex are natural and entirely common. Spend as much time as possible in foreplay and ensure that both partners have lined themselves with plenty of lubricant.

· Communicate your Desires And Fears

Communication is important in any relationship. Communication before and during sex for the first time is no less important. Share your hopes, share your fears. You will be astonished to learn that you will each have many hopes and fears in common. It is the act of sharing your desires and anxieties that will, ironically, act to reduce them or, perhaps, eliminate them altogether. Knowing, for instance, that you both worry about “being any good” will act to eliminate this anxiety because now you each feel less pressure related to performance because you each know the other is equally worried about his or her performance. The same rationale can be used for each anxiety. When you share your fears and such fears are mirrored by your partner they will, almost magically, disappear.

· Will I Perform Well?

As sex tips for virgins go, this tip seems to be most popular. Why? I think it is because virgins tend to be more anxious about overall sexual performance more than they are about anything else. What is a good performance? A good performance occurs when both parties enjoy the experience. The secret to giving a good sexual performance is concentrating on your partner and ensuring they receive as much pleasure as you are able to give. Let them be the center of your universe. Notice what they seem to like and respond to it appropriately. It is common for virgins to feel uncomfortable during sex and also to make mistakes. If you do make a mistake, just laugh about it. It is common to make mistakes after all. If you laugh about a mistake, it makes it seem like nothing at all.

· Will I Orgasm?

Women tend to orgasm less frequently than men when having sex for the first time. It cannot be said whether you will orgasm or not. However, one thing is certain; you will have more chance of having an orgasm is you do two things. Firstly, you must not worry about having an orgasm. It is not essential to your enjoyment of sex. Secondly, concentrate on the pleasure of lovemaking, so much so that you forget about anxieties and, perhaps, even the world about you. Like most anxieties, the more you worry about orgasm, the less chance you will have of actually having one.

Conclusion

If you follow the steps and advice mentioned above and, you will be guaranteed that your chances of making love successfully for the first time will be significantly improved. Overall, if you forget the above tips just remember to relax and concentrate on the beautiful act of lovemaking with your partner.

 

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